This post is for all the Divine Feminines out there who are patiently waiting until their Divine Masculine comes home.
We have seen and heard it happen a lot, when we hear the Divine Feminines on their Twin Flame journey complaining that they are the ones doing all of the inner healing work and their Divine Masculine is still showing no signs of coming home to her.
This creates an upset in the very engaged Divine Feminine because she consistently does her hardest to do whatever she can to make her Divine Masculine come home.
But what truly happens here and what is playing out in the joined Twin Flame consciousness is that the Divine Masculine is showing the Divine Feminine the deep Father wound that a lot of females walk around with.
Don't misunderstand me, because, of course, men and young boys have also upsets surrounding the Father figure just as much as both girls and women as well as boys and men have upsets with the mother figure. But oftentimes, the upsets look slightly different if you compare the Mother or Father upset that men or women have.
What happens a lot with young girls is that their biological Father is very absent in their upbringing. Either he is a lot at work or they experienced an emotionally unavailable Father. Or a father who is very charismatic and authoritative. Boys and men also experience some similar upsets with their Mothers or Fathers but the processing, and the impact are different.
Young girls or young women seek from a very young age shelter, confidence, and the approving presence of the Father figure in their upbringing to feel safe. But when the young girl or the female experiences an absent Father figure, causes a deep wound within the child. Where the child misses the presence, guidance, approval and emotional availability, and investment of the Divine Masculine.
What you often see is that girls wait until daddy is home to then try in every way possible to gain his attention, presence, and guiding hand. Either through showing him her drawings or whatever the girl is proud of. She needs that confirmation, validation, presence, guidance, and safety from the Divine Masculine Father to feel safe to open up and to express herself in her own unique way. Off course, this is the same for boys. Boys will oftentimes actively seek the attention of the Mother figure, but that is for another topic in another blog post as this post is specific for the Divine Feminine.
But when the Father figure works a lot and is not much at home, which happens a lot, and is emotionally unavailable when he comes home since he is probably tired from a long day at work, the little girl or teenage girl develops a deep, painful wound where she finds herself in an eternal, waiting stage. Simply because she heard or saw or even felt it from her Father figure when she wanted his presence and attention and he had no time or was tired etc. So, the girl or woman feels that deep wound of being rejected and not wanted by the Father figure and starts to develop a pleasing pattern where she tries her hardest best in all areas to gain the attention of her Father.
When the girl grows older as a teenager and her interest in men or relationships starts to awaken, her internal wounds of rejection or abandonment and pleasing wounds that she had towards the Father come up and she might then try to get the attention and approval of boys or men until she finds someone who stays with her. So that the Feminine finally feels the approval of the Divine Masculine that she is safe, loved, and desired so that she can flourish and open up in her love and creativity.
When these females then also get ignored and rejected by soulmates or go on a couple of breakups with soulmates before they know anything about their Twin Flame, their one true love, and the Teachings of Union, it often creates a cocktail of deep hurt and anger towards the Divine Father figure and the Divine Masculine. The Divine Feminine might even feel rejected and feel like she is on the string of the Divine Masculine and is in some sort of waiting stage. This creates an upset and resistance towards the Masculine. As we mentioned above, as soon as the Female awakens to the Twin Flame journey, all these hurt places and blocks are brought up to her by her Twin Flame who is her eternal, perfect husband, created by God for her.
So the trap that a lot of Divine Feminines fall into when they are spiritually awakening and are on their Twin Flame journey, is that they start applying the Teachings of Union to finally get that attention and approval from their Divine Masculine, their Twin Flame. But the problem is that this causes a block in their Twin Flame Union, simply, because your Twin Flame is not your Source. The whole reason why you apply the Teachings of Union is not to get your Twin Flame, of course, this is a desired side effect, but to be all in for yourself, to love and heal yourself completely, and to fully return to and master Love.
The problem is that way too many Divine Feminines fall into the trap of applying the Teachings of Union to get the result and as we see and hear it often, they apply the Teachings of Union but still point the finger towards the Divine Masculine who is not changing. While in Truth, it is they who are resistant in accepting that it's not only applying the teachings of union and surrendering to the Divine or so-called Divine timing. Divine timing is disbelief. As the Divine or God is always a new God. You will receive what you have in your heart if you cleared all the internal resistance towards having it. The only thing that exists in the universe is energy and order. There is an order in which energy flows. So yes your desires come in some way order. But to not stand in the way of your Twin Flame Union. You must act and be in alignment with your Twin Flame Union on the inside and resolve the core blocks that keep you from having it.
Pointing the Finger at your man is not going to bring you closer. We understand that you have feelings and you need to feel them, but you must be willing to go to the deepest places within yourself where you feel the most hurt. Where you feel afraid of men. Where you feel abandoned or disappointed. If you keep resisting these places, then your Divine Masculine will keep resisting you because you are one being.
So it's not only about loving yourself and romancing yourself and waiting until he comes, because this way you will wait a long time, but to be willing to go very deep. To heal masculine wounds and traumas. But to be willing to let that old programming go where it's said that the man comes rescuing you on his horse and brings you home. This is the kind of disbelief that some feminists have because of society's programming. And the Truth is that your Divine Masculine will stay far away from you if you expect him to come and be your savior and provider, because he is not. He is you, and he does you a great favor by not showing up on your doorstep as long as you are not learning how to step up for you. This might sound hard but if you are still reading up to this point that means that you want nothing but the Truth. And that is exactly what you receive when you follow the Teachings of Union and our posts.
You want the Truth. The only problem is that you are scared of the Truth. But there is no need to be scared. Because the Truth is empowering. The Truth sets you free. And the Truth helps you to see clearly and make clear decisions that steer your life toward where you want it to go.
The Truth is that you will have to let go of that old programming where you thought that your prince charming will just come to you if you act or dress a certain way. That's not how it works with your Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame loves you perfectly right now. And shows you where to change and love yourself.
So you will have to learn how to resolve those programs and misbeliefs within yourself. To know who your Source is. To learn to value yourself. To learn what true love is. To see that your Twin Flame loves you perfectly. And to be willing to not only heal internally, but also to be willing to take Divine inspired action after you have healed. Because of healing and applying the teachings of Union without taking the next action step. Is like trying to drive a car without gas in it. You sit in the car ready to go to your destination, you feel good about yourself and the destination. But you have no clue why the car is not moving forward. And you are just waiting until someone comes by and tells you why the car is not moving forward.
This is the exact kind of procrastination that is damaging your confidence as a woman. And it self-sabotages you in a way that you are waiting only on yourself.
Off course, there is support for you. We will guide you every step of the way in your Harmonious Twin Flame Union and beyond. And the Divine and the Teachings Union are supporting you as well. But you have to be willing to become your cheerleader as well. You will have to learn who your Source is and to be willing to take inspired action, even if it scares you. We and the Teachings of Union are here to help you every step of the way. You are not alone.
But the question you have to ask yourself is.
Am I there for myself as well?
Am I willing to take inspired action?
To take the first step if necessary?
To be willing to accept the reached-out hand of Stijn and Johanna and the Teachings of Union?
And to do whatever it takes?
That's the kind of positive attitude that brings you into your Harmonious Twin Flame Union. And we can help you arrive at that place through the Teachings of Union.
Are you willing to let the misery of separation and pain behind?
And are you willing to let us help you into your Harmonious Twin Flame Union and take our reached out hand?
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